Selfish?
Hello, first of all, may I respectfully ask that no one turns this into a pissing contest because that is NOT my intent here whatsoever. With that said, I am in my late 20's, never married, and I adamantly refuse to date here in Colorado Springs because all that I ever run into are single moms. My own step-father tells me that it is pretty selfish of me to be this way, but I refuse to budge on this. I just simply do not want to take the responsibility of playing daddy for a child that is not my own and will never ever be my own. In all honestly, I DO have sympathy for single mothers out there whose husbands cheat on them and leave them OR they just end up getting divorced and end up becoming single mothers. I do have sympathy for those single mothers. What I DON'T have any sympathy for is young girls who get pregnant at 16 or 17 and who are not married. In my opinion, there isn't any excuse for this because there are several methods of birth control available to these MEN AND WOMEN who are simply being irresponsible. Don't get me wrong, I'm no angel, but I have NEVER gotten a woman pregnant and am responsible myself. I realize that I am going to have to move away from Colorado Springs if I ever hope to find a single/never married woman without kids and that is fine by me. Am I selfish?ibf